KONSEP MENCARI PASANGAN DALAM AL-QUR’AN (ANALISIS KAJIAN TEMATIK)
Kata Kunci:
Concept of finding a partner, Al-Quran , Thematic studyAbstrak
Marriage is a training event, and by carrying it out, it strengthens the individual virtues of both men and women. Finding a life partner in Islam is highly recommended and has many benefits, but it is not an absolute obligation, particularly as explained in the Tafsir Tafsir Al-Munir, Tafsir Al-Mishbāh, and Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī.
The formulation of the problem in this study is How is the concept of finding a partner in the Qur'an, and How is the concept of finding a partner in the Qur'an thematic study analysis (Tafsir Al-Munīr, Tafsir Al-Miṣbāḥ, and Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī). The purpose of this study is to find out and understand how the concept of finding a partner in the Qur'an, and To find out and understand how the concept of finding a partner in the Qur'an thematic study analysis (Tafsir Al-Munīr, Tafsir Al-Miṣbāḥ, and Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī).
The method used in this study is a qualitative approach and thematic analysis, with the type of library research. The primary data sources in this study are the Qur'an and several Tafsir books and focus on three books: Tafsir Al-Munir, Tafsir Al-Miṣbāḥ, and Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī. Meanwhile, secondary data sources are in the form of publication websites, journal articles, or internal records.
The results of this research are that the concept of finding a partner in the Koran emphasizes religion and morals as the main criteria in choosing a partner. Your soul mate is a reflection of yourself, so you need to continue to improve yourself. QS. Ar-Rūm (30): 21, Tafsir Al-Munīr (humans originate from the Prophet Adam As. and Eve who Allah created from soil). Tafsir Al-Miṣbāḥ (Creation of couples and its relation to monotheism). Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī (the importance of offspring in marriage). QS. An-Nisā (4): 1, Tafsir Al-Munīr (commands and stay away from Allah's prohibitions, Humans were created from one soul (Adam) and his partner (Eve). Tafsir Al-Miṣbāḥ (unity of humanity, responsibility, doing good, human relationship with Allah, creation of a partner from Adam). Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī (Friendship is mandatory, breaking it is haram, Men and women complement each other, need knowledge about marriage, having the same rights and position). QS. An-Nūr (24): 26, Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī (good words are only appropriate for good people, and vice versa). 49, Tafsir Al-Munīr (marriage is accepting each other, worshiping together, and drawing closer to Allah SWT). Tafsir Al-Miṣbāḥ that marriage is a form of worship and devotion to Allah). Tafsir Al-Qurṭubī (Oneness of Allah (tawhid) as the basis of paired creation).
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